I just read an article about two 8th grade basketball coaches who got into a punching match over one player tripping another player. Seriously? I have been around my fair share of sporting events, most likely more than my fair share. Youth sports have gotten completely out of control. Elementary school kids don't need special uniforms, parents keeping stats on the bench or huge trophy's at the end of the season. They all should be saved for when you get to play Varsity in high school. Coaches should be teaching the basic fundamentals of the sports, with an emphasis on good sportsmanship. Taking knee when a player is injured, shaking the other coaches and the officials hand after the game, and being a graceful loser.
Most are coaches are volunteers. It is not an easy task to find 150 people to volunteer their time to coach a youth basketball team. I am one of those volunteers. My fears have been not playing everyone equally and having a son who is a ball hog. The first I think I did a good job one, the second is a work in progress.
Officials-usually you need 1-2 officials a game. Yes it's a paid gig, and most are probably in high school. They needed a job so they sought out their local Y or Kidsports. They are doing their best. It is difficult to officiate a game when you have an overzealous mom screaming at you to watch out because #4 is pushing her baby. It's a game.
Youth sports are suppose to be fun. Leaning the skills, accomplishing the first play, making a great pass, and having fun with your friends. The majority of coaches do a great job. It's those crazy few who don't have a clue about good sportsmanship and winning is the most important thing, and the 3rd grade team that has special uniforms and a website to show the world their stats.
Today as a mommy, I will be focusing on my ball hogs, yep I have two.
Off my soap box for now:)
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